Wartime Encounter is a little book (only 147 pages long) written by Harm de Blij, which tells, in the words of Peter Gould, “of a time, place and circumstance that must never be forgotten.” This time: the second world war. The place the Netherlands. The circumstances: occupied by one of the most ruthless, brutal forces / ideologues the world has ever seen; the Nazis.
De Blij was only five years old when the war started, 10 when the Germans capitulated. Before the war, the De Blij family was – in essence – one happy family. Little Harm was constantly surrounded by music (his parents were both gifted musicians), love and – in a good way – quiet. They lived in Schiedam, close to, even a suburb of, the Netherlands’ second largest city of Rotterdam.
This idyllic childhood comes to an abrupt end by the sounds of Nazi airplanes flying over, dropping bombs on Rotterdam: destroying the inner city completely – only the Church remained standing – and killing as many Dutch citizens as possible. The destruction caused the Netherlands, whose forces fought back passionately up till that time, to surrender.
Life changed instantly: the Rotterdam Philharmonic Orchestra, in which Harm’s father played, was not to assemble for a long time to come. Some members were killed May 14. Others were not allowed to play in the orchestra any longer because they were Jews (the persecution had begun). Financial problems forced the De Blij’s to move.
De Blij describes how life changed, not just for him, but for the Dutch people as a whole: opposition was oppressed, signs of patriotism forbidden, Jews were persecuted, those who helped Jews were arrested, and, finally, one could not trust anyone outside of one’s immediate family.
With a sad undertone De Blij describes how he was not allowed to talk to anyone about family affairs. The NSB (Nationalist Socialist Union) came into existence, existing out of traitors and Nazi collaborators. Many an NSB member spied on his own neighbors. Not only did they spy themselves, they also used their children. Children have, as De Blij explains, the tendency to brag about their parents when those parents do something patriotic, say being active in the resistance. So, NSB members told their children to tell them whenever when of their classmates brags about such activities by his or her father and / or mother. As De Blij writes “many a father was taken away” because children said too much.
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